If you are hosting a friend’s reunion and there are people who don’t know each other, introduce each person adding a little background, as in: “He is Pete Summers, dentist, runner and father of two wonderful boys”.  You will make it easier for everybody to start a conversation.

Monicami :: Sep.13.2009 :: My rules :: No Comments »

It’s a rule of thumb one should not mix spirits when drinking. So, avoid cocktails (specially the sweet ones), and always stick to straight drinks.  There are ways in which you can “mix” to some extent.  I enjoy having wine with dinner, but as an “after” sometimes I have a whisky rather than a dessert wine. Or, on the other hand, I may start with a classic Campari or a Tequila, and then switch to wine. If you are only going to have one glass of each, you are playing it safe. The “don’t mix” rule applies especially when you are going to hang out all night.  Moderation is always a must, but also having the kind of drink that gets the “kick out of you”, as the song goes. You don’t want to fall asleep or make a fool of yourself. (I have a special respect for martinis. Ladies, beware!).

Monicami :: Aug.05.2009 :: My rules :: 1 Comment »

I used to be one of those persons who are ashamed to ask for a discount, specially in places like boutique shops, auto dealers or service vendors in general. Very recently I learned that discounts are for those who ask, as my husband says. Don’t be afraid. I have become addicted to discounts or, at least, to negotiate better payment plans. You will be surprise as how much people is willing to give in.

Monicami :: Jul.16.2009 :: My rules, What women want, really? :: No Comments »

If this is your very first date, and you don’t know much of the guy, needles to say you must choose  a restaurant (or public place) where you are known by the owners. Other rules that apply:

• Wear a sexy outfit but leave room for further surprise (just in case)
•  Don’t talk too much about yourself (again, be mysterious)
•  Keep positive…nothing is worse than listening to trouble, problems and tragedies
• Don’t speak about your family (no details, I mean)
• But most of all…LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN. Let him do the talking, chatting, ordering, even singing or dancing. With all this information decide if you want to see him again.

Monicami :: Jun.25.2009 :: My rules :: No Comments »